Trying To Get Her Back?

Trying To Get Her Back?

Trying To Get Her Back 

Hey Guys,

Are you going through a break-up? 

Are you trying to get her love back?

I know how frustrating and earth-shattering that can be! Believe me. I've had my fair share of heartache.

Luckily, I managed to get out alive. You can too.

If you are trying to get your ex back, it is important to focus on YOU.

Until you can begin to take care of yourself and become the person she fell in love with in the FIRST place, you do not have a very good chance of getting her back.

It shouldn't just be about trying to get her back though, you should become the best person you can be - for you.

-xo Kat 

When Harville Hendrix writes about relationships, he discusses them not just as an educator and a therapist, but as a man who has himself been through a failed marriage. 

Hendrix felt the sting of his divorce intensely because he believed it signaled not only his failure as a husband but also his failure as a couples counselor. 

Investigating why his marriage dissolved led him to start looking into the psychology of love. 

Marriage, he ultimately discovered, is the "practice of becoming passionate friends."

As a result of his research, Hendrix created a therapy he calls Imago Relationship Therapy. In it, he combines what he's learned in a number of disciplines, including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, to name just a few. 

He expounds upon this approach in Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. His purpose in writing the book, he says, is "to share with you what I have learned about the psychology of love relationships, and to help you transform your relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship."

Divided into three sections, the book covers "The Unconscious Marriage," which details a marriage in which the remaining desires and behavior of childhood interfere with the current relationship; "The Conscious Marriage," which shows a marriage that fulfills those childhood needs in a positive manner; and a 10-week "course in relationship therapy, " which gives detailed exercises for you and your partner to follow in order to learn how to "replace confrontation and criticism ... with a healing process of mutual growth and support." 

The text is occasionally dry and technical; however, the information provided is valuable, the case studies are interesting, and the exercises are revealing and helpful. 

By utilizing his program, Hendrix hopes you too will be able to solve your marital difficulties without the expense of a therapist.