What To Do When Dumped -
What To Do When Dumped - But You Still Want Her!
Ouch, I wish we were meeting under better circumstances. I really do. I've been dumped too by somebody I loved, and that I thought STILL loved me.
Assuming that you still want to get back with her, I won't tell you just to get over it...to snap out of it...to move on...to get over her...that there are more fish in the sea...
'Cause I know it's not easy just to brush off, pick up, and move on.
But you can't change the fact. She dumped you. Right now, you have to deal with it. And may I add...as best you can!
So What To Do When Dumped...But You Still Want Her...
She will hope you will try and move on. Actually, she will want you to. It will be easier on her. Trust me, she will NOT forget about you overnight.
If anything, you will be MORE appealing to her come reconciliation time, when you try and get her back.
You don't want to walk around the house sulking in your PJ's. This will do NOTHING for you to try and win her back.
You will want to continue your life, and if you lost yours in the process - create a new one.
Continue your hobbies and interests. Start new ones. Get back together with old friends. Meet new ones. Take on new work projects of interest. Try dating.
Yes, I said it...
Try dating.
Meet new women as friends.
It doesn't matter where you go to meet women for friendship.
Hey, YOU were the one that was dumped. It's not what works for your ex, it's what works for YOU.
And at this point, it's none of her business. If she really cared THAT much, she wouldn't have dumped ya! Got it?
Good.
It's not about making her jealous. That will eventually back-fire on you.
Creating a 'new life' is what it's all about for what to do when dumped.
By meeting new people, you will learn what it is you want for yourself.
You will discover what it is that you didn't get from your ex, but you wanted.
So get out there and have some fun. Will ya?!
Be genuine with the women you meet. Be honest that you recently went through a break-up and are looking for new friends. Spare the gory details! No one wants to be your relationship counselor. Save that for therapy, if needed.
Online dating for men is a great way to EASILY meet new women, if you haven't tried it already. It's not as stigmatic as it used to be, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about. You can select 'friendship' as what you are looking for on the site. Also, you can 'hide' your picture, if you don't want the public to see.
It's worth a shot to try online dating. You can't feel worst rejection than the one you are dealing with right now. Besides, it will feel good to know that you are STILL desired by women. You won't know this unless you get out there and meet women.
If you have no idea how to start dating online, or how to attract women online, or what to say or do once you sign-up, or what the heck a profile is, or which matchmaking sites to try out...don't worry. ;)
I have it all for you at Online Dating Help For Men Blog.
You don't have to jump into the 'real world' right away. Give yourself a few days to grieve, but that's it. Don't wallow away in misery, letting the sunny days pass you by.
It's not just time that heals wounds, it's EFFORT on your part.
So jump in - the sooner you do, the sooner you can get your ex back!
Best of luck in love & life!
-xo Kat
Ouch, I wish we were meeting under better circumstances. I really do. I've been dumped too by somebody I loved, and that I thought STILL loved me.
Assuming that you still want to get back with her, I won't tell you just to get over it...to snap out of it...to move on...to get over her...that there are more fish in the sea...
'Cause I know it's not easy just to brush off, pick up, and move on.
But you can't change the fact. She dumped you. Right now, you have to deal with it. And may I add...as best you can!
So What To Do When Dumped...But You Still Want Her...
She will hope you will try and move on. Actually, she will want you to. It will be easier on her. Trust me, she will NOT forget about you overnight.
If anything, you will be MORE appealing to her come reconciliation time, when you try and get her back.
You don't want to walk around the house sulking in your PJ's. This will do NOTHING for you to try and win her back.
You will want to continue your life, and if you lost yours in the process - create a new one.
Continue your hobbies and interests. Start new ones. Get back together with old friends. Meet new ones. Take on new work projects of interest. Try dating.
Yes, I said it...
Try dating.
Meet new women as friends.
It doesn't matter where you go to meet women for friendship.
Hey, YOU were the one that was dumped. It's not what works for your ex, it's what works for YOU.
And at this point, it's none of her business. If she really cared THAT much, she wouldn't have dumped ya! Got it?
Good.
It's not about making her jealous. That will eventually back-fire on you.
Creating a 'new life' is what it's all about for what to do when dumped.
By meeting new people, you will learn what it is you want for yourself.
You will discover what it is that you didn't get from your ex, but you wanted.
So get out there and have some fun. Will ya?!
Be genuine with the women you meet. Be honest that you recently went through a break-up and are looking for new friends. Spare the gory details! No one wants to be your relationship counselor. Save that for therapy, if needed.
Online dating for men is a great way to EASILY meet new women, if you haven't tried it already. It's not as stigmatic as it used to be, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about. You can select 'friendship' as what you are looking for on the site. Also, you can 'hide' your picture, if you don't want the public to see.
It's worth a shot to try online dating. You can't feel worst rejection than the one you are dealing with right now. Besides, it will feel good to know that you are STILL desired by women. You won't know this unless you get out there and meet women.
If you have no idea how to start dating online, or how to attract women online, or what to say or do once you sign-up, or what the heck a profile is, or which matchmaking sites to try out...don't worry. ;)
I have it all for you at Online Dating Help For Men Blog.
You don't have to jump into the 'real world' right away. Give yourself a few days to grieve, but that's it. Don't wallow away in misery, letting the sunny days pass you by.
It's not just time that heals wounds, it's EFFORT on your part.
So jump in - the sooner you do, the sooner you can get your ex back!
Best of luck in love & life!
-xo Kat
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